Saturday, August 2, 2008
your stand on against of relationships doesn't really seem that strong to me anymore. you have been bringing up this kind of topics pretty frequent recently. of cos, could be cos you wanna hint that you ain't interested in r/s. but you keep emphasizing that your groups and you share the same mindset. and they always wanted a r/s. the way you phrased sounded as if you are thinking the same thing too.
and my rebuke whenever you bring up this topic is the same. 5 years many things had changed. you had grown up and your character and environment is different. nowadays r/s is more of communication, trust and commitment. gotta really understand whats the other's goals and dreams. does not need to share the same vision but have to be able to 体谅 the other party and so on. and of cos gotta see what you want out of the r/s. if the motive is just for playing purposes or just have a gf cos ppl ask you to, this kind of r/s surely will not last. and the ending will be you get disappointed nia.
when i said the above, he will repeat his previous stand but it sounds much weaker. he is spending more time listening to my reasoning now lol. should we disagree, we will both be speaking at the same time. used to be i stopped and let him say finish first. now its different. we will continue with the two voices until one backs down. and i'm proud to say its him who stopped. whahaha!
oh yah added in another thing. its pretty obvious we leave office together as we both pack at the same time. and i always purposely wanna he go first but he seems to share the same mentality like me. so the timing ended up to be about the same. faint. and as he showed me which way he walked to bus stop, before we leave office, he would tell me to meet at the back yard. hahax. and today he as usual, he had arranged to meet with his frenz. we took bus to clementi. his bus came 4 times but he had not boarded it. continue chatting with me and the reason given for not boarding the bus is cos he wanna wait for double decker. lol. ended up we talked at the bus stop for an hour. pretty exaggerating xia. then things have changed to he auto smsed me when we parted. and the last sms is always him to me. no more every sms he sent me i reply. haha!
getting closer to something..? we have do away with the formalities already too. lol. lalalala~
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